What you Know for Stimulation?

April 11th, 2009 Shabu Sex Tips 0

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A number of reasons are there why sexual stimulation for your spouse appears very important to you. The reasons are

  • Power
  • Experience
  • Control
  • Satisfaction
  • Love
  • Attraction
  • Ego
  • Confidence

Doesn’t matter what the reason you may discover yourself just fascinated by various techniques. The techniques could use to facilitate your bed mate achieving the most mind blowing orgasms that she desires. In this article I just try to help (giving advice) you what should do before start intercourse. You should follow the advices given below:

  • Several methods – like kissing, biting –  you may practice in order to increase the amount of stimulation
  • Different method you can use from different angle for your partner better experiences
  • Know more about your partner body
  • Try to understand her physiology
  • May watch blue film to stimulate her mentally
  • Give prime partner’s body and mind
  • Put off her dress by yourself
  • Release her mind and muscles
  • Use dirty word at the time of foreplay
  • Symbiotically manipulates partner’s body and senses
  • Praise her beauty

Remember body without mind is just like a robot; and a robot cannot give you complete satisfaction. So, you should give importance mind alongside body. When both of the two be prime then you will get access to the exclusive orgasms which your counter part wants. For her mind setting for the play, here are some tips for you such as:

  • Use Dim lights
  • Give her feather touch with any flower
  • Play some ambient romantic music
  • Touch her sensitive area softly
  • Rub some scented oils into partner’s neck, shoulders and body
  • Use sexy perfume or body spray

Try to follow all of the above advices and give an exclusive orgasm to your partner. With her orgasm both of can get complete satisfaction in your sexual game.

Sex during Pregnancy

February 16th, 2009 Shabu Sex Tips 0

sex during pregnancyIt is been wonder by millions of couple around the world if sex is safe during the pregnancy period. The answer is yes as long as your health care provider advises you. The baby is protected by the amniotic fluid in the womb, by abdomen, and by the mucus plug which seals the cervix and helps guard against infections.

In a normal pregnancy, going onto a sexual intercourse is not linked with early miscarriage. If you are feeling sexy and well enough then it might be a good thing to keep your sex life going through pregnancy. The studies show that there are no link between having sex during pregnancy and premature birth in normal, healthy pregnancy. In actual fact, one study found that pregnant women who had regular sex during pregnancy were less likely to give birth prematurely.

When is not safe to sex during pregnancy?
Sex is only safe during pregnancy when your health care provider has indicates that you don not have a high risk pregnancy. However, there are few reasons to avoid sex during pregnancy. There are some situations when your health care provider will point out to avoid sex. These conditions are:

  • History of miscarriage
  • History of premature labor or birth
  • If your water has broken
  • If you experience inexplicable vaginal bleeding or discharge
  • If you have an incompetent cervix or if it has widened
  • If you or your partner has a sexually transmitted disease
  • If you have placenta previa, or a very low-lying placenta

What are the changes with sexual intercourse during pregnancy?
You might not have any kind of change if you have sexual intercourse during pregnancy. But however as your body will change during pregnancy so you may want some change to make things comfortable. Here is some information that you should consider when thinking about sex during pregnancy:

  • The common missionary position may become uncomfortable and warrant considering other positions such as side by side or with you on top.
  • Exhaustion, hormonal fluctuations, tender breasts and self-consciousness about weight gain can bring your sex drive to a halt. Sometimes you may need rest to regain energy, so give yourself a break.
  • As your breasts increase in size, they may become more tender or sore. Encourage your partner to explore other parts of your body and to find other ways to embrace you. With the changes in your breast it is best to avoid direct nipple stimulation.
  • There is increased blood flow to the pelvic area that can lead to engorgement of the genitals and heighten the sensation; however, for some women this can be more uncomfortable.

Orgasms Better for Women

February 11th, 2009 Shabu Sex Tips 0

sensual1Psychologist Dr Lisa Turner, a leading expert, recently said women who get thrills from regular orgasms are much more likely to be successful at work and healthy. He said that male partner lose energy through orgasm whereas female partner are empowered by them and gain clarity of thought. It is really amazing. According to his statement, the right type of orgasm will “massively increase your energy.”

However, previous research showed that 28% of women hardly ever, or never, achieve full orgasm, and a lot of resort to faking it. But now Turner study has showed that good orgasms improve health and mental concentration. That’s why, good orgasms help women perform better at work than their counter part. She says “You will feel more vital, healthy, and energized.” So, try to satisfy your partner with good orgasms to get better performance from her.

Pick Appropriate Condom

January 24th, 2009 Shabu Sex Tips 0

condom-snackThere are so many diseases which can be transmitted in another body during sexual intercourse. So, we should careful always during any sexual activities. Sometimes people make sex but do not want pregnancy. There is a one thing which make you tension free during sexual activities. Yes, that is condom. A condom is the only contraceptive and safe method that can help in preventing any unwanted pregnancy. Additionally, it provides protecting against getting infected with sexually transmitted infections like HIV, Gonorrhea, Syphilis, Chlamydia, HPV and so on.
Condoms come in various sizes and have a wide variety of textures. Those are typically supplied with a lubricant coating to assist better penetration. Lubricant provides better stimulation to the partner, too. Here are some tips to pick a right condom for you.

Material:
Most of the condoms are made of latex though there are some others that are made of polyurethane. However, several made from lambskin are usually available. The latex condoms can be used with only water-based lubricants whereas polyurethane ones can be used with both oil-based and water-based lubricants. But, latex ones are more reliable and flexible than those made of polyurethane or any other material. Moreover, latex condoms are readily available widely than others. On the other hand, polyurethane ones are odorless. These condoms are preferred by those who are allergic to latex. Additionally, those who have a special inclination for oral sex, they also use polyurethane condom.

Size:
In the competitive market a lot of companies are nowadays manufacturing condoms in various lengths and widths. As most of those are made of an elastic rubber; so, they can stretch according to one’s erect penis. But individual with larger penis would need a slightly larger condom. Actually, it totally depends on the person to determine the right condom size that suits his requirement and fit to his penis perfectly.

Shapes and Textures:
There are different shapes of condoms appearing now in the market. Among those, many of them have a reservoir tip on the top while several companies do come with a plain tip. A number of condoms may get a regular shape. Some condoms are known as form-fitted condoms as those are indented below the head of the penis in order to provide better support. Flared condoms are wider over the head of the penis, whereas studded condoms have raised bumps on the whole surface for providing an extra sensation and pleasure. On the other hand, ribbed ones have raised lines on the shaft. You should bear in mind, as like size, shape of a condom is dependent on one preference as well.

To protect yourself from any type of sexual diseases and save your partner from unexpected pregnancy there is no alternative except using condom. So, you should better to use condom in any sexual intercourse.

How to Become Sexually Attractive

January 14th, 2009 Shabu Sex Tips 0

sexual-attractiveTo make own as a sexually attractive woman, you must know that, how a man want to see a woman? You need to learn to look at women through the eyes of a man: What do men search sexually attractive?

The first step in an effort to become a sexually attractive “never be afraid of being sexually attractive”. The matter here is our fear. We fear that we will get changed into someone we have not so far known. But everybody needs to know that we live in an age where each individual is free. Just think positive, a sexually attractive woman always attracts everybody and in the modern age to get prosper in life at first you need attract all. So don’t fear of being sexually attractive.

As an effort to become a sexually attractive woman think sexy. Sexual appeal rise from our minds even more than body. Thinking sexy doesn’t mean you be enjoying the pleasures of sex. It means like that, you get well-dressed and always give pose to all that you are looking really attractive in the dress. Here is also an important matter is, sexually attractive woman is to get in shape. You need to develop the body of fitness as a model. Though, this is tough. Without truly love men can never get enough of the female anatomy. A man always like fit and well shaped women.

Become a sexually attractive woman doesn’t mean that you will not faithful to your man. Always try to make believe on his mind that you are trying to sexually attractive only for getting more attraction on his eye. Do not hold your emotions and share your excitement with your soul mate. And always enjoy the sex with your partner.