The Things that your Beau Dislike in Bed
May 13th, 2009 Shabu
Most of the people think it is a duty for a male how much he can make interesting their game in bed. That’s why; many men are worried how they satisfy their female partner. They try to do all what a woman wants, they never do what a woman hates. But if you are a woman … then I want to ask you …. Have you ever thought what your partner wants to you in bed? What he hates in bed? I think you never ask him but why? You should ask him as in bed it’s a game for both of you. Both of you participate here eagerly. You should know what your partner hate in bed. It will improve your sex life. Here are some tips that would help to learn actually what your partner hates or dislikes in bed.
Inactivity: During sex if you don’t do anything – just lie or sit down and wait for getting some bliss. That is unfortunately the nastiest thing you do and your partner hate that. You must move, in spite of your partner is on your top. Show your bedmate that you desire to have sex with him. If you appear “lying dead”, it may even create some sexual problems to your bedmate and both of you cannot get complete satisfaction.
Dearth Kiss: You must agree that you like to get kissed. Like you, your partner wants to be kissed. Why you forget that your partner desire is same in case of sex? Your boyfriend love when you are kissing his all body. That drives your partner crazy and wild. So, if you want to please your bed partner, kiss, tease, pinch; as well as play with him.
Non-dominating: Are you an old fashioned lady? If not, then why you think that you partner has to take the entire control having sex in bed all time. Why sometimes you don’t take the control? Sometimes, your boyfriend love to be controlled. You have to dominate in bed occasionally. Just show your beau that you want to get sex now, order him sometimes what he needs to do. Show him you are the one who can dictate the rules. Show you have power to control him. I assure that your partner must be much excited and satisfied with your dominating action.
Lack of Sensitivity: You should be dreadfully sensitive to your bedmate. I know you love to have sensitive the man beside you. Do not be egoistic. Try to do the same thing to your one. Your partner bodies are actually sensitive and you should do your best to make your man feelings as good as he makes your feelings.
Poor Caress: If you love to get extreme pleasure, keep in mind to give the same to your partner. To see your poor concern, maybe sometimes your man thing that you don’t care at all in bed what he wants. Care his feelings. You should remember always to ask some questions like … “How you like that?”, “Do you want it more?”, “How is that feeling?”, “What you want to be got?”, “What you prefer now?” Just let him know, how much you care his feelings. He likes to your attention and feels proud.
Hiding Emotions: If you don’t show your emotions to your man then he does not understand what you like or not. Your hiding-emotions make your partner confuse. Don’t confuse him if you want to get real taste of sex life. Be smart, don’t hesitated or feel shy to moan or scram while you feel like moaning or screaming from extreme pleasure. Get breath little bit harder. Make some noise, as that is the superb way to notify your bedmate about your actual feelings at that pleasant moment. It also helps you. Your partner will know by this way, what you love most and you must be rewarded. So, why late? Practice it.
Unfit Outfits: When you go to office what you wear? Or when you go any wadding party what you put on? You just put on a dress that suitable for that occasion. Like that, you should wear some exclusive clothes during sex. Your poor dress up may destroy your partner emotion and your sex appeal both. A sexy outfit can raise your demand whereas poor outfit can diminish your appeal. Never be bashful to surprise your boyfriend with different sexy outfits. He must like teasing about your sexy outfit and be excited about imminent sex.
Low Eagerness: Your partner doesn’t feel well when you don’t show initiative to make sex. You are not old fashioned lady. You do not want to prove that you are very shy person to do this. So, why you don’t show your initiative in sex? If you feel like to have sex with your spouse – just show him and let him know, you are an average lady who can enjoy having sex and can express her all wishes. Your eagerness on sex makes your partner much crazy.
Action after Sex: After sex if you begin to clean yourself and sheets, it is not a good sign for your partner. This attitude says to your partner that sex with him somehow violates your clean sleeping space. It may hamper your sex life. Don’t destroy the pleasant sex atmosphere. Do that later. Lie down on bed and try to get relax. Simply enjoy your feelings with your satisfied bedmate as you made an exciting sex, just a minute ago. Your partner doesn’t like your clean and tidy body in his bed.
Imprecise Talk: I know you love to talk either it is bed or anywhere. Your partner must love your all type talk but not in bed. Your partner may dislike you if you talk a lot at the time having sex in bed. But he likes dirty talks; it increases your intimacy in bed. He also loves the word that telling him what you feel like him to do with you and vice versa. So, try to deliver some precise speech with your sexy voice that increases his feelings about you.
Monotonous Activities: You should do some different activities having sex. Otherwise, it may turn a boring thing to have sex on bed. You may show some still porno photograph or adult film to your partner to stimulate him. To see that, he may just imagine how you look like if he do something with you such film or photograph. You may use some sex toys for making variation in your sex.
So, the lady what you learn from above? Can you now realize why your partner sometimes ignores you? Why sometimes he losses his feelings on you? The above tips will help to perform you in bed as a professional. Sometimes, you must be aggressive in bed as your partner demand. Try to understand his mind and feelings like that he tries. Remember, in bed you should not be an ideal woman, just turn yourself as naughty as you can.
