Sexual Guidelines

Some people say that only sex can make a strong bond in human relationship. But sex without true love is simply an animal relationship and that does not last long. At a certain period both of them feel that it is empty. It can give them nothing more than a cheap ephemeral pleasure. In another point of view, sex without love is totally immoral and unethical; as there is no, even little, respect for the human body when there is no feeling and emotion between the couple. We can consider it as craziness, because most of the time it leads to more absurdity and immorality.

If we consider about prostitution, treason, rape, in a word, every violent manifestations of absurdity and immorality of the world, then we easily realize that sex without any kind of feeling or spiritual relation between any couple can just provoke much damage to the human psyche. We see in our society most of the mental illnesses get their origin in immoral and illegal love affairs and finally that have very tragic and terrible consequences. Sex without love is just the beginning of bipolar disorder and psychosis, as the human being feels and thinks that he or she is only an immoral animal, nothing else, and his or her psyche cannot accept such type of misery.

Alternatively, love without sex must not be considered as a balanced relationship because in that case, it is not natural and this only means that the love between couple is not real. A lot of women avoid sexual relationships with their desire companions. They claim that they just want to be held in their companions’ arms and feel loved, without the necessity and obligation of a sexual relationship. If they do not have that intention, then we can say actually they do not love their companion. And it is quite dangerous, because after some days they may get very attracted to somebody else, and in this way they will be tempted to commit adultery and cheating on their good husbands. Additionally, they may suffocate the sexual desires and thus, acquire several psychological problems. And those problems will seem to be incomprehensible. However, that will be quite real, and as dangerous as the absence of feelings. So, the couples who love without sex check your status.

Actually what is the definition of a balanced relationship? A really perfect and balanced love relationship depends on only when sexual attraction and love both exist simultaneously between the couple. So, without the one or without the other, it is true that, the relationship can simply become problematic. Maybe the problems remain hidden for some days, but those will appear one day, even if they are suffocated for several years. So, you should pay attention to all things very carefully when it is a matter of relationship. You should always try to be morally correct, and despise neither your heart nor your body when you select your companion. Always try to be honest to your partner and want to know his or her requirements.

As we know, sex is a game and this game played by mainly two players – you and your partner. In any game, it is very necessary to make the game enjoyable and get real taste both opponent are equal and both have same intention about the game. In our conjugal life, we see, in many cases, boys become more aggressive then their partners but in this game if your partner get less interest than you, perhaps the game is not enjoyable for both of you. Maybe, there are many reasons that she gets less interest but you should try to stimulate her to take part the game violently. But how can? I know, you may read some articles about sex and those entire articles suggested you discover your partner G-spot, and stimulate her by fingering, messaging, sucking and kissing in the G-spot. Yes, G-spot is a vital portion to stimulate a woman but all time you stimulate her by this way, it will make monotonous. On the other hand, there are some other areas in a woman body which can stimulate a woman and when you play with those portion and then play with G-spot, your partner become more excited and you are able to arouse her feelings. Come to see, how you can stimulate your partner besides G-spot.

• I have told you, at first, sex is a game, and you should stimulate her for this game since morning when you go out for office. But how can? You may kiss her deeply on her lips as a primary notice that you want more tonight.
• When you return home from office give her a special hug with stress very closely so that she realizes that you want her much closely in a very short time.
• When you want to bed, play some romantic song or watch any romantic movie and you may use sexy perfume.
• When she comes in bed you should start dirty talks because before sexual intercourse dirty talks are very effective to stimulate anyone.
• You should start the game by kissing on her face, throats, cheek, neck, arms, back and so on.
• You should use your mouth and tongue to lick and suck her lips, ears, nose and neck.
• With licking and sucking, take off your partner’s dress by your hand because when you take her dress off and unclothe her, she becomes stimulate and gets more pleasure than if she does it herself.
• You should squeeze and massage her breast at time of unclothing her and while you involve kiss.
• After unclothing pay special attention to her bust and nipple because these are very sensitive and many women can orgasm from boobs stimulation alone. So, lick, suck, squeeze and kiss her as much as possible.
• You should play the small of your partner back because it is very sensitive; moreover, it has numerous pressure points where a lot of women carry stress. If you smoothly massage this part it will feel very wonderful to your partner. She will delight and feel so hot and sexy since you gently and softly kiss her throughout the massage of this zone.
• You should give some feather touch, strokes and kisses onto her stomach and navel because these are very sensitive.
• You should grab her butt cheeks in your strong hands, squeeze them, softly bite them and play with them. As a result, this releases stress and leaves your partner with the thought that you are making your mode to more erogenous portion.
• There are ,also, some sensitive areas by your gentle play she become stimulate such as behind her knees, inner thighs, inside of her arms, hollow of her neck and many more.
• One thing always keep in your mind that your vocal expressions is very important in this game so you must give different expression when you play with her different organ. Not only that but also you should continue your dirty talk and share your feelings how you enjoy to play with her sexy organs.
• You should ask her whether she feels relaxed with you using your soft tongue in combination with your playable fingers.

A woman body is still now a mystery. From hair to toe, in every organ of a woman get sexy feelings but among of those some get more feelings in their breast while others get feelings in navel region or buttocks. Actually, it differs from woman to woman. So, you should ask your partner where she gets better feelings and what her most sensitive area is.

You must know what she prefers or does not prefer. In fact, without having proper idea of your partner it is too tough to stimulate her and get your desire response from her.

Recently a groundbreaking piece of research has found that rates of pregnancy are much higher among teenagers who watch many TV shows with sexual dialogue and behavior than among those teens who have tamer viewing tastes. The recent study is the first to link those viewing habits and practice with teen pregnancy. Teenagers who watched and enjoyed the raciest shows were twice as about to become pregnant over the next three years as those teenagers who watched very few such programs.

On the other hand, another previous study by a number of the same scientists already discovered that watching a lot of sex on TV can influence teenagers to have sex at earlier ages. TV Shows that highlight only the positive aspects of sexual behavior and practice without the risks can easily lead teens to have unprotected sex. Anita Chandra, lead author and behavioral scientist, a Rand Corp., said, “before they’re ready to make responsible and informed decisions.”

The new study was released on Monday in the November issue of Pediatrics. It considered 2,003 teens, 12-to 17 years’ old girls and boys all over the country questioned by phone about their TV viewing habits in the year of 2001. The last part in the year of 2004, teen people were re-interviewed twice to ask about pregnancy. It was surprising that among girls, 58 got pregnant during the follow-up period, whereas among boys, 33 admitted they had gotten a girl pregnant. In the interviewed, participants were asked how often they enjoyed and watched any of over 20 TV shows popular among teens at the time or which were found to have a lot of sexual content. The shows included “That ’70s Show”, “Sex and the City,” and “Friends.”

Researcher found that pregnancies were twice as common among those teens who admitted they watched these types of shows regularly, compared with other teens who said that they hardly ever watched those. In this study, there were more pregnancies among the oldest teenagers interviewed, though the pregnancy rate remained consistent across every age group among those teens who watched the racy shows or programs. In this connection, Chandra said TV-watching was strongly connected with teen pregnancy even when other factors were considered, including grades, family structure and parents’ education level.

However, it is true that the research did not acceptably address some other issues,  self-esteem, family values and income, said Elizabeth Schroeder, executive director of Answer, a teen sex education program based at Rutgers University. He also said, “The media does have an impact, but we don’t know the full extent of it because there are so many other factors.” Though Bill Albert, chief program officer at the nonprofit National Campaign to Prevent Teen Pregnancy, praised the research and said it “catches up with common sense.” He added, “Media helps shape the social script for teenagers. Most parents know that. This is just good research to confirm that.” Moreover he noted that the downward trend occurred as TV shows were becoming more sexualized, confirming that “it’s not the only influence.”

On the other hand, still teen pregnancies were on a 15-year decline in USA until a 3% go up in 2006, according to the latest statistics though many experts consider that could be only a statistical blip.

Here the president of the National Institute on Media and the Family, well-known psychologist David Walsh, cited statistics suggesting only around 19% of US teens say they can able to talk frankly with a trusted adult person about sex. He remarked, as with many schools not offering sex education that leaves the media to serve as a sex educator. He said, “For a kid who no one’s talking to about sex, and then he watches sitcoms on TV where sex is presented as this is what the cool people do.” As a result, the outcome is obvious. Walsh said the message to parents is to converse to their children about sex long before kids are teens. Parents should be watching what their kids watch and helping filter messages sex-filled programs are sending. In a nutshell, we should always observe our teens what they watch in TV and should not give permit to watch any racy show so that they can influence get teen pregnancy.

The bliss of sex is one of the utmost gifts we obtain as a human being. But a sexual period can bring an awful mood if it is not handled with cleverly, responsibly and plan fully. In a sex period women are different from a man. It takes much time to bring erotic mood in a woman mind. So, at first man need to make a woman cum.

Making a lady cum is the best impressive moment for every male. But most of the man doesn’t care about it. They only take care about him when having sexual intercourse with a female. It needs to be our main aim, even making our own sexual needs secondary.

“In a good sexual relationship, you touch each other all the time — not just in bed. When you talk to your lover, put your hand on his or rub his back for a few minutes. When you’re driving, rest your hand on his thigh. When couples touch each other, it’s a way of expressing warmth and keeping that ‘united’ feeling alive. All touching doesn’t need to lead to sex, but it is a part of being physically intimate.” – Brenda Venus, author of Secrets of Seduction for Women (Dutton, 1997)

The subject is such a forbidden, most man may know about it by their own sexual experiences. In a past few years ago, there was no place to learn about it. But now with the helping of online tips people get to know something about it. Only some people take the help of online tips or other resource places and they are able to make a woman cum, then their sex is fully pleasant. For the in experiences of man, in a recent survey it has been found 33% of women fake orgasms.

So it must need to make a woman cum before a satisfied sexual session. This article of us will expose some tactic that will help you for giving you sense more light on the topic of How to make a woman cum:

• Without doing anything don’t start rush sex. Start slow and build up the pace for you.
• Don’t be mistaken. Show her that your aim is to giving pleasure her.
• Most of women don’t cum through having penetrative vaginal sex. Play with her clitoris. Majority of women climax through clitoral stimulation.
• Enter her but start with slow pushes at a variety of depths and approaches.
• Talk to her at the time of sex. Tell her how gorgeous and sexy she is, touch her every places and make her more excited.

Everyone is looking for sex secrets these days, because so many couples are dissatisfied with their sex life. Many people don’t realize that there are very simple solutions available to them. The truth is that the secrets to great sex aren’t as mysterious and elusive as one might think.

There are three main reasons that couple’s aren’t experiencing the level of pleasure they desire in their sexual relationship.

The sexual needs of men and women are unique and very few people understand these differences and know what to do about them. Many of these differences are a result of biology, not choice.

For instance, men and women need to be touched in different ways, the most satisfying positions for men are not usually the same as they are for women and a woman’s taste in adult videos is quite different than a mans are just a few examples. To learn more about the unique sexual needs of men and women and discover hundreds of secrets to increase your sexual pleasure and be viewed as an incredible lover, you may want to take a look at The Lovemaking Smorgasbord by Cynthia Perkins.

Men and women are keeping many secrets about sex hidden from their partner. Even among married couples or those who’ve been together a long time, many people tend to hide very big pieces of themselves because they are afraid they will be rejected or criticized.

Many couples are not honest with each other about what they desire and need sexually, because they’re uncomfortable talking about it or unaware of their needs. For women, one the most common secret is that he’s not satisfying her and she’s pretending that he is. For men, they often hide some of their deepest fantasies.

Many couples don’t know how to communicate with one another about what they need sexually to be satisfied. They often falsely believe that everything will just fall into place naturally. While some things do have a natural course of action, specific needs, desires and preferences must be shared for ultimate pleasure. If there isn’t adequate communication, all the sex secrets in the world will not bring you results.

The solution to these problems lies in knowledge of self and your lover and the willingness to truly share yourself with your partner. It also involves the willingness to remain open and adventurous.

Sharing your sexual needs, desires, turn ons, fantasies etc, is one of the most intimate acts you can engage in. The great thing about intimacy and great sex is that they feed one another. Intimacy leads to more satisfying sex, while sex that is deeply pleasurable encourages more intimacy.

Another crucial secret for great sex lies in creating more passion. A relationship that is lacking in passion cannot possibly result in truly satisfying sex.

Some of the best kept sex secrets have nothing to do with the actual sex act itself. They are about understanding and respecting the differences between men and women, really getting to know your partner, deepening intimacy and strengthening your relationship.

The secret to great sex is not just one move, technique, position or tips; it’s a combination of many things. It is the result of a good relationship, chemistry, and skill mixed together.