Safe Time to Having Sex without Condom

April 22nd, 2009 Shabu Intercourse Tips, Sex Life, Sex Tips 4 Comments

sex without condomA newly married couple never wants to comply with any obstruct which stand before their love. And there is no love without sex. God made sex natural and enjoying for making the love more deep. So every couple wants to enjoy their sex life with full pleasure which is so ancient but always gives newer feeling to them.

As a woman before enjoying this most enjoyable event of your life you must worry about your pregnancy. Here comes the essentiality of using protection. And condom is the best thing to use as protection. But most of the men and also a lot of women don’t like to use condom during their sex session. It reduces the pleasant of sex event.

So for enjoying a full satisfactory sex session without any worry about pregnancy is really important for a woman. Most of the time it seems that, a man never thinks about pregnancy before a sex session. So as a woman you need to pay full concern about this topic. If only the woman is aware about the matter then it can easily be controlled by natural way. Pills are great to avoid pregnancy tension, but most of the pills have long term effect. So you can follow a natural way which is much effective. And now the question arise that, what is the natural way?

Have you heard about safe period? Here is a safe time in every months of a woman’s life when having sex is tension free. If you have regular menstrual period on time then it is easy to find the safe time of your life. It is something like the seven days after menstruation starts and the seven days previous menstruation. The concept grows from the experience of various expert women’s life. Though, this duration varies from person to person; if you have short cycle then your safe time can be in five days after menstruation starts and the five days previous menstruation.

With the calculation of the safe period you must know the fertile period. If you have a regular 30 days cycle of period then 15th day after your periods begin is the peak day and three days after and before are the mainly unsafe days to having sex without any protection.

So if a woman is always alert about calculating her safe period then it is easy to enjoying sex with full satisfaction by herself and her partner. But always remember if you have irregular periods then don’t follow any of these processes.

G-spot Part-1: How you can locate G-spot?

April 15th, 2009 Shabu Sex Tips 1 Comment

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You can give orgasm to any woman in several different ways such as

  • Lavish your partner with kisses
  • Give your spouse oral sex
  • Dirty talking
  • Giving excitement
  • Warm your bed mate up with foreplay
  • Touching, stroking and caressing her clitoral, vaginal and G-spot.

G-Spot can give to any woman extremely satisfying orgasm if you could stimulate suitably. It is relatively small area of great sensitivity and target for highest sexual arousal. The spot is like spongy bean. Stimulated G-spot has potential to take women to amazing heights of sexual pleasure.

Location: G-Spot is found inside woman’s vagina lies just about 1” to 3”just behind the pubic bone. Actually, it is existed nearly halfway between the pubic bone and women’s cervix.

Shape: The spot feels like bean shaped area of nerve tissue. It gets a different texture and ridged. So, the area is not smooth like other part of the vagina.

Locating G-Spot is little-bit tough but not impossible. Not only you but also your partner gets a hard time discovering it. A number of women do not even believe the spot exists though it gets every woman.

How you can locate G-spot?

Traditional Method:

To locate G-spot, cooperation is needed from both of you. With proper cooperation and understanding you can locate your partner’s G-spot easily. Here are some tips what you should do step by step locating the spot.

  1. Ask your partner to get longish hot water bathe in order to relax every muscle in her body.
  2. After the bathe, ask her to lay her down on the bed or sit on a couch.
  3. Ask spread her feet wide as much as possible.
  4. Place a right pillow below her buttocks for more relax and comfort.
  5. Insert your two longest fingers into the vagina towards the navel.
  6. Let the fingers go 1” to 3”inside the vagina.
  7. Get “come here” motions with the fingers.
  8. Press with your two fingers against the front wall of her vagina.
  9. Slide the fingers from side to side.
  10. Try to feel something like spongy.
  11. Ask your partner to tell when you hit the spot.
  12. Finally, your partner’s facial expression tells you if you hit the right place.

Using Vibrator:

If your partner is worried of wound from the fingernails you may use vibrator to locate the spot. Here are some tips for you how you should use this technique.

  1. Use a fairly thick and clean vibrator.
  2. Lay the partner on the bed.
  3. Ask her to raise her knees.
  4. Put a pillow under her bottom for her comfort.
  5. Stimulating her clitoris with the vibrator.
  6. After stimulating her clitoris for a while insert the vibrator into the vagina.
  7. Insert the vibrator 1” to 3”along the upper front wall of the vagina.
  8. Make “come here” motions or sweeping motions.
  9. As soon as you hit the spot your partner will start moaning.
  10. Make a mental note for the spot (about its depth and the location)

Using Penis:

You can locate the spot with your penis. Among the various sex positions, doggy style, the reverse missionary position and the girl on top position are suited for g-spot stimulation. In case of doggy style you will get the control whereas the other positions your partner will get the control.

In the doggy style, you can locate the spot in following way.

  1. Penetrate your penis slowly.
  2. Wriggle your bottom as much as possible seeing that you thrust deep.
  3. Thus, the tip of your cock will have to brush against the spot.
  4. Once, your partner will start scramming, it means that you hit right spot.
  5. When the spot is located continue to rub the penis against it.
  6. Finally, give your partner an amazing orgasm.

Some other methods like using sex toys you may also apply to locate your partner G-spot. Remember, it is essential to locate her G-spot if you really want to give her an exclusive and mind blowing orgasm.

What you Know for Stimulation?

April 11th, 2009 Shabu Sex Tips 0

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A number of reasons are there why sexual stimulation for your spouse appears very important to you. The reasons are

  • Power
  • Experience
  • Control
  • Satisfaction
  • Love
  • Attraction
  • Ego
  • Confidence

Doesn’t matter what the reason you may discover yourself just fascinated by various techniques. The techniques could use to facilitate your bed mate achieving the most mind blowing orgasms that she desires. In this article I just try to help (giving advice) you what should do before start intercourse. You should follow the advices given below:

  • Several methods – like kissing, biting –  you may practice in order to increase the amount of stimulation
  • Different method you can use from different angle for your partner better experiences
  • Know more about your partner body
  • Try to understand her physiology
  • May watch blue film to stimulate her mentally
  • Give prime partner’s body and mind
  • Put off her dress by yourself
  • Release her mind and muscles
  • Use dirty word at the time of foreplay
  • Symbiotically manipulates partner’s body and senses
  • Praise her beauty

Remember body without mind is just like a robot; and a robot cannot give you complete satisfaction. So, you should give importance mind alongside body. When both of the two be prime then you will get access to the exclusive orgasms which your counter part wants. For her mind setting for the play, here are some tips for you such as:

  • Use Dim lights
  • Give her feather touch with any flower
  • Play some ambient romantic music
  • Touch her sensitive area softly
  • Rub some scented oils into partner’s neck, shoulders and body
  • Use sexy perfume or body spray

Try to follow all of the above advices and give an exclusive orgasm to your partner. With her orgasm both of can get complete satisfaction in your sexual game.

Sex Hormone Responsible for Obesity!

April 9th, 2009 Shabu Sexual Health 0

A special sex hormone for female named Oestrogen can lessen woman’s capability for burning fat as soon as having any meal. The findings were discovered by Tony O’Sullivan, Associate Professor of Sydney endocrinologist . He is serving at the NSW University  alongside St George Hospital. The researcher hope the result of the research will help to explicate why women store fat much efficiently than their counter part men. Tony said “Female puberty and early pregnancy – times of increased Oestrogen – could be seen as states of efficient fat storage in preparation for fertility, foetal development and lactation.”

For getting the result, Tony pooled research by him and some others in order to elucidate why ladies get on average 6% to 11% more body fat than males, in spite of fact that men usually eating more. He said “The hypothesis stems from the fact women have a higher percentage of body fat than men, yet when you look at dietary intake, women don’t eat more fat and calories than men, they normally eat less.” The findings recommend a fat-storing system kicks in throughout puberty as well as early pregnancy. It happens for biological reasons. The research published in Obesity Reviews.

Teens Get the Sex Idea from Porn!!!

April 1st, 2009 Shabu Teen Sex 0

teen and pornA recent UK study makes a noise all over the world. As it reveals that youngsters are budding thinking it is quite okay to ape porn stars after viewing various explicit content on the web, TV or cell phones. The shocking statistics revealed on Channel 4’s The Sex Education Show Vs Pornography, exposure to pornography was cheering teens to imitate what they see. The study showed the lewd and hardcore imagery egged the youngster as well on to get unsafe sex, thin bodies, boob jobs, and Hollywood waxes.

For the study, researcher had interviewed more than 443 teenagers aged 14 to 17 at schools all over the country. They found one third of children got the idea of what was “normal” about sex from porn rather than their parents. 63% revealed they never talk about sex frankly at home whereas 77% said their parents had no idea they were watching porn. Besides, above one in five girls gave a thought to getting a boob job as a third had waxed or shaved the bikini area. More than 25% of boys worried about the size or shape of their genitals, whereas 44% of girls were concerned about the size or shape of their boobs.

The research was revealed the girls as young as 14 and 15 were stripping and performing several sex acts on webcams for their boyfriends. They think it is okay and acceptable to do so in front of the lens. According to a 15 years old girl, the lads were comfortable with viewing similar imagery on the web and TV. As a result, girls are responded to their boyfriend request. The girl said “Girls will do things on webcams to entertain boys.” On the other hand, a14 years old said “Once they send the picture it gets used against them. The boy will say, ‘Do more or I’ll show everybody the pictures’. Everyone always regrets what they do.”

The study discovered just about nine out of ten teens between 14 to 17 years had seen porn and nearly one in five accessed it more than once per week. One in five kids received porn content through email or on their cell phone without the consent while a quarter faked the age to get access the explicit imagery.