Effects of Frequent Masturbation

January 28th, 2009 Shabu Sex Life 0

masturbationMasturbation is considered to be a healthy and self satisfactory sexual perform which also helps in maintaining soundness of strength in men. Though, sometimes it does over, this gives rise to several complications. The addiction of it can bring harm to both physical and physiological.

Frequent masturbation leads to driving of acetylcholine nervous functions. But this much motivation might activate the estrogen and androgen hormones and neurotransmitters such as serotonin, acetylcholine, and dopamine. This may affect in the brain and switches the brain and body functions to be exceedingly sympathetic. Shortly it means there is a vast change in body chemistry as a result of bigger frequency of autoeroticism.

From the research, men are usually suggested to limit it within not more than 2 to 3 times a week. If you do over practice, it will bring huge side effects for your health. The side effects of such changes to the body include:

  • Feeling tired all the time. Constant feeling of exhaustion almost at all times.
  • Lower back pain.
  • Hair loss or reduction out of hair.
  • Disturbance in eyesight or fuzzy vision.
  • Weak erectile problems.
  • Early and premature ejaculation.
  • Pain or cramp in the pelvic cavity or tail bone.
  • Memory loss might is one of the unpleasant psychological side effects of masturbation.
  • Main cases might also lead to weakness.
  • Frequent masturbation is the cause of interrupt the liver’s discharge of enzymes that synthesize neurotransmitters serotonin, dopamine, and acetylcholine.
  • It is also harmful for liver; it upsets the function of releasing those enzymes that help in hormonal production. This outcomes in over-secretion of hormones like epinephrine, dopamine, and other hormones and neural transmitters.

However, masturbation is a healthy sexual behavior. Over practice of masturbation can bring huge damage for every man’s life. So try to do it in a limit.

Pick Appropriate Condom

January 24th, 2009 Shabu Sex Tips 0

condom-snackThere are so many diseases which can be transmitted in another body during sexual intercourse. So, we should careful always during any sexual activities. Sometimes people make sex but do not want pregnancy. There is a one thing which make you tension free during sexual activities. Yes, that is condom. A condom is the only contraceptive and safe method that can help in preventing any unwanted pregnancy. Additionally, it provides protecting against getting infected with sexually transmitted infections like HIV, Gonorrhea, Syphilis, Chlamydia, HPV and so on.
Condoms come in various sizes and have a wide variety of textures. Those are typically supplied with a lubricant coating to assist better penetration. Lubricant provides better stimulation to the partner, too. Here are some tips to pick a right condom for you.

Material:
Most of the condoms are made of latex though there are some others that are made of polyurethane. However, several made from lambskin are usually available. The latex condoms can be used with only water-based lubricants whereas polyurethane ones can be used with both oil-based and water-based lubricants. But, latex ones are more reliable and flexible than those made of polyurethane or any other material. Moreover, latex condoms are readily available widely than others. On the other hand, polyurethane ones are odorless. These condoms are preferred by those who are allergic to latex. Additionally, those who have a special inclination for oral sex, they also use polyurethane condom.

Size:
In the competitive market a lot of companies are nowadays manufacturing condoms in various lengths and widths. As most of those are made of an elastic rubber; so, they can stretch according to one’s erect penis. But individual with larger penis would need a slightly larger condom. Actually, it totally depends on the person to determine the right condom size that suits his requirement and fit to his penis perfectly.

Shapes and Textures:
There are different shapes of condoms appearing now in the market. Among those, many of them have a reservoir tip on the top while several companies do come with a plain tip. A number of condoms may get a regular shape. Some condoms are known as form-fitted condoms as those are indented below the head of the penis in order to provide better support. Flared condoms are wider over the head of the penis, whereas studded condoms have raised bumps on the whole surface for providing an extra sensation and pleasure. On the other hand, ribbed ones have raised lines on the shaft. You should bear in mind, as like size, shape of a condom is dependent on one preference as well.

To protect yourself from any type of sexual diseases and save your partner from unexpected pregnancy there is no alternative except using condom. So, you should better to use condom in any sexual intercourse.

Type of Sex Crime

January 17th, 2009 Shabu Sex Crime 0

proseIt is very common when we open a news paper and we see a lot of sex crimes are occurred in all over the world. Surprisingly, in spite of strict laws, these crimes are increasing. But what is sex crime and why people do it? Actually, all sex crimes are closely related to human instincts. As a biological creature, every individual has sexual drives and sexual urges. And when those urges become uncontrollable and irrepressible, some individuals are sometimes driven to such acts that society never approve of. In some cases those acts may not be criminal. However, when the acts are considered as criminal, the punishments are often very much severe and rigorous.

There are various kinds of sex crime. Among those, prostitution, a centuries-old practice, is one of the most striking forms of sex crimes. Prostitution is the selling of one’s sex. In many cities and towns have some hotels, rest house, guest house or brothel where prostitutes provide their services. But when prostitutes are caught by law enforcing agency, often they do not sentence for much jail time as they are seen as victims. On the other hand, when clients of prostitutes who are generally men, (because prostitutes are typically women) are caught they can face much jail time or sentence for severe punishment.

Sometimes, prostitution could be much popular that often prostitution businesses start up. There can be many brothels, where women come to work, similar to like other community go to the office. Such as, female person may go to any brothel from 8 pm to 5 am. Like other office they will stay there for that period, and interested men will come in there to make sex with them. Moreover, there could be prostitution rigs whereby interested women are one way or another networked in the web of business that brings customers to prostitutes. It is noted here, Eliot Spitzer, Ex New York Governor, was caught having sex with a prostitute who was part of a prostitute ring. And that time the incident raised a storm all over the world.

There is another kind of sex crime is known as child pornography and statutory rape. Basically, child pornography means any sexually explicit material involving kids under the age of 18. In every country, it is illegal and prohibited for children to view pornography, and it is also illegal for kids to take part in pornography. On the other hand, statutory rape occurs when anybody over 18 has sex with somebody under 18. This crime is particularly severe were when the adolescent is very young. For an example, recently R&B singer R. Kelly was charged and acquitted of charges of statutory rape. And it violently harms his fame. Having sex slaves is other sorts of sex crime. Typically, sex slaves are brought from another especially poor country. Most of the time, they are imprisoned in someone’s residence and forced to have sex with that person or his mob, who purchases them from middlemen.

Usually, conviction of a sex crime consequence is in a long prison sentences as well as social ostracization. Additionally, people who have sexual relations with kids, for instance, become called sex offenders. Their names are put on a national database. As a result, their regular life, like getting a job, mix with other people becomes very difficult. On the other their inner mind continuously get hurt morally.

How to Become Sexually Attractive

January 14th, 2009 Shabu Sex Tips 0

sexual-attractiveTo make own as a sexually attractive woman, you must know that, how a man want to see a woman? You need to learn to look at women through the eyes of a man: What do men search sexually attractive?

The first step in an effort to become a sexually attractive “never be afraid of being sexually attractive”. The matter here is our fear. We fear that we will get changed into someone we have not so far known. But everybody needs to know that we live in an age where each individual is free. Just think positive, a sexually attractive woman always attracts everybody and in the modern age to get prosper in life at first you need attract all. So don’t fear of being sexually attractive.

As an effort to become a sexually attractive woman think sexy. Sexual appeal rise from our minds even more than body. Thinking sexy doesn’t mean you be enjoying the pleasures of sex. It means like that, you get well-dressed and always give pose to all that you are looking really attractive in the dress. Here is also an important matter is, sexually attractive woman is to get in shape. You need to develop the body of fitness as a model. Though, this is tough. Without truly love men can never get enough of the female anatomy. A man always like fit and well shaped women.

Become a sexually attractive woman doesn’t mean that you will not faithful to your man. Always try to make believe on his mind that you are trying to sexually attractive only for getting more attraction on his eye. Do not hold your emotions and share your excitement with your soul mate. And always enjoy the sex with your partner.

Secret of Balanced Relationship

January 3rd, 2009 Shabu Uncategorized 0

sexSome people say that only sex can make a strong bond in human relationship. But sex without true love is simply an animal relationship and that does not last long. At a certain period both of them feel that it is empty. It can give them nothing more than a cheap ephemeral pleasure. In another point of view, sex without love is totally immoral and unethical; as there is no, even little, respect for the human body when there is no feeling and emotion between the couple. We can consider it as craziness, because most of the time it leads to more absurdity and immorality.

If we consider about prostitution, treason, rape, in a word, every violent manifestations of absurdity and immorality of the world, then we easily realize that sex without any kind of feeling or spiritual relation between any couple can just provoke much damage to the human psyche. We see in our society most of the mental illnesses get their origin in immoral and illegal love affairs and finally that have very tragic and terrible consequences. Sex without love is just the beginning of bipolar disorder and psychosis, as the human being feels and thinks that he or she is only an immoral animal, nothing else, and his or her psyche cannot accept such type of misery.

Alternatively, love without sex must not be considered as a balanced relationship because in that case, it is not natural and this only means that the love between couple is not real. A lot of women avoid sexual relationships with their desire companions. They claim that they just want to be held in their companions’ arms and feel loved, without the necessity and obligation of a sexual relationship. If they do not have that intention, then we can say actually they do not love their companion. And it is quite dangerous, because after some days they may get very attracted to somebody else, and in this way they will be tempted to commit adultery and cheating on their good husbands. Additionally, they may suffocate the sexual desires and thus, acquire several psychological problems. And those problems will seem to be incomprehensible. However, that will be quite real, and as dangerous as the absence of feelings. So, the couples who love without sex check your status.

Actually what is the definition of a balanced relationship? A really perfect and balanced love relationship depends on only when sexual attraction and love both exist simultaneously between the couple. So, without the one or without the other, it is true that, the relationship can simply become problematic. Maybe the problems remain hidden for some days, but those will appear one day, even if they are suffocated for several years. So, you should pay attention to all things very carefully when it is a matter of relationship. You should always try to be morally correct, and despise neither your heart nor your body when you select your companion. Always try to be honest to your partner and want to know his or her requirements.